
Is This For You? | Who I Help & How
Therapy with me is specifically designed for women in Blackpool, Lancashire and across the UK who are tired of carrying everyone else's emotional baggage, silencing their voice, and feeling like they're never quite enough.
If you're nodding along to what follows, we might be a good fit for working together.
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This is for you if:
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You're the "good girl" who's had enough
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You were praised for being helpful, accommodating, and low-maintenance
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You've spent years putting others' needs before your own
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You say "yes" when you want to say "no" to avoid disappointing people
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You feel guilty when you prioritise yourself
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You're exhausted from people-pleasing
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You overextend yourself to keep everyone happy
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You worry constantly about what others think of you
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You avoid conflict at all costs, even when it hurts you
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You apologise for things that aren't your fault
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You struggle with self-worth
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Your inner voice never shuts up, telling you you're not good enough
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You base your worth on how productive or helpful you are
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You struggle to recognise your own achievements
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You compare yourself to others and always come up short
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You've lost touch with who you really are
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You're not sure what YOU want anymore
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You change yourself to fit in with different people or situations
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You feel like you're living someone else's life
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You crave authenticity but don't know how to get there
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You're ready for change
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You're tired of living for everyone else
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You want to feel comfortable in your own skin
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You're willing to explore uncomfortable feelings
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You're ready to put down what was never yours to carry
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This might not be for you if:
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- You're looking for someone to just tell you what to do
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You want a quick fix without exploring deeper patterns
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You're not ready to question long-held beliefs about your role and worth
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You're looking for a therapist who is clinical